Whenever holidays occur, there usually is an experience with family as part of the celebration or observance. And, whenever there is family, there are anticipations, rituals, habits, patterns, expectations, memories, and lessons. And, whenever there is family, no matter what has happened during this time and no matter how many frustrations or arguments occur, when it comes time to part there is a sense of sadness and loss…particularly if you live far enough away from each other to prevent frequent visits.
For some, this sense of loss may be as a result of realizing that your parents are aging and that time is passing faster than you thought. It may be that your children are growing up faster than you realized and that a significant portion of your life has passed while raising them. You may have faced your own mortality for the first time, or you may have celebrated this holiday for the first time without the presence of a beloved family member.
For others, this sense of loss may come from wishing that you had a deeper connection with a family member…that there is something separating you from someone you love deeply, but you have absolutely no idea how to bridge that gap. Or, it may come from wishing you had a family, or a mother or a father or a sibling or a spouse or children. Or, it may come from the realization that the choices you made have kept you from the ones you love, and you wish you hadn’t wasted so much time before repairing those relationships.
Whatever the reasons behind the sense of loss, the deeper feeling is one of desiring connection and attachment. Our families are our first connections and the first relationships we attach to in life. So it is understandable that these issues arise in such potent situations. However, our relationships with others does not have to be the primary source of this experience of either connection or attachment…instead, we can provide this experience for ourselves. And, when we do provide this experience of ourselves, it becomes much easier to love and let go.
So today, I invite you to discover that place within your Divine Line where you are deeply connected with your essence…where you are fully attached to yourself and your journey…no one else’s. If you need support in this process, here is a protocol to assist you.
We invite you to take a few deep breaths into your belly. We invite you to bring all your awareness into this present breath of now…out of the past and out of the future. We invite you to connect with your Higher Self…to connect with your own healing source, your own spiritual power. We invite your body deva and your team to do the same. We invite your Higher Self, your team, your guides, the Ascended Masters, Archangels, and you from the future as an Ascended Master to create a safe and sacred space around you…infused with the appropriate sacred geometric shapes, healing holograms, and mandalas…lights, sounds, and colors. We invite your body deva to do the same.
We invite you to pull all of your awareness deep within yourself…deeper and deeper into that beautiful river of light that flows on the front of your spine…that place of pure essence…of pure you…where all is safe and all is love. We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to work with the energetic fields and the guides to locate all reference points and lines of attachment that you have placed outside of yourself…on family, on children, on parents, on grandparents, on spouses, on beloved relationships, on friendships, on expectations, rituals, familial patterns, beliefs, and habits…in all dimensions and lifetimes. We invite your Higher Self to work with the energetic fields and the guides to gently lift all of these lines up and off of all of these people and relationships, bringing them back to you at the level of your Higher Self, cleansed, cleared, and recalibrated for this present breath of now and this present lifetime’s tasks, goals, and responsibilities. We invite your body deva and team to do the same.
We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to work with the energetic fields and the guides to locate all reference points and lines of attachment that others have placed on you as they seek information…from all dimensions and lifetimes, including ancestors. We invite your Higher Self to work with the energetic fields and the guides to gently lift all these lines of attachment that don’t belong to you up and off of all you sending them back to their right and perfect place, where they have the capacity to be received, along with all relevant and appropriate information. We invite your body deva and team to do the same.
We invite you, at the level of your Higher Self, to bring in the appropriate anchors for attachment to your essence and to your journey. We invite your attachment lines to attach to the appropriate anchor, attaching you to yourself to the degree that you experienced attachments to others. We invite the self-attachment dial to be turned up in order to fill the need the soul has for attachment. As this attachment dial turns up, we invite you to locate that point of connection deep within this river of light…where all your needs for connection and intimacy are met. We invite you to imagine what it would feel like if all those needs were met fully and completely every single moment of your life. We invite you to transmit that feeling to your body deva, and to your energetic fields. We invite your team and the guides to reflect this feeling back to you…filling you up completely with the feeling of connection and intimacy from a place of inner attachment and fulfillment. We invite you to relax and expand in this energy…this place of love and support, attachment and connection…releasing others of the obligation to provide this experience for you. We invite you to sit in this energy for as long as you desire.
We ask that all reference points are updated, all energy grids, personality grids, all ways of being, perceiving, and being perceived. We ask that you are wrapped in sheets of rainbow light, gently sealing in these vibrations to whatever degree is appropriate to your spiritual evolutionary state. We are in deep gratitude to the angelic realm for serving and assisting today…in every breath, and in every way. We are in deep gratitude to you for all that you do…seen and unseen, and for the courage you carry in your heart to shift, grow, and evolve…for as you do, you shift humanity.
And so it is.